Sunny Dev, I quote ur words here" you tried to undo some of the misrepresentations.... I too did that at some point of my life. When your loved one accepts mediocre option, you tend to inflate every trace of desency you can find in it. It's human nature that we think we are the worst we can accept. But there are times when we need to be liberal and lower our standards. When your loved one compromises, you have no choice left...Compromise mannnnn...... " This is exactly wat I felt some 4 years ago and still... when someone I love the most chose someone.......I still remember the things we tried and said against HIM....yeah it has been quite sometime but still every now and then it haunts us....This is how I felt absolutely and later gave up for their love.....