Every one expect a perfect partner with different attributes, in their own way. But realize this non in this world is perfect. Lear to be satisfied / happy with what you have or what you get. Coz you get what you deserve. You cannot have all in one package. Even Lord Shiva could not give Dropati a perfect husband. As she asked for a husband with different attributes, (strongest of them all, wisest of them all, handsome of them all, cute of them all, great worrier of them all) Then what Dropadi got was 5 husbands.