NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU TRY ITS HARD TO GET RID OF YEARS N YEARS OF SOCIETIAL THINKING - - IT STILL DOES MATTER TO A LOT OF NEPALI PEOPLE THAT THEY HAVE SONS AND IT WILL STILL TAKE MANY MORE YEARS FOR THAT TO CHANGE HOWEVER, AS LONG AS WE DO NOT INDULGE IN DISCRIMINATION THE REST WILL FOLLOW ANYWAYZ IN MY CASE ME N MY FIANCE WANT TWO SONS AND TWO DAUGHTERS - - WE WANT THE BEST OF BOTH SIDES, HOWEVER, IF DUE TO NATURE'S WAY WE END UP HAVING FOUR DAUGHTERS OR FOUR SONS ITS ALL GUD :) :)