Loote-jyu, So basically there is no way to know whether true love is real or a myth. That was my point with some give and take pun. As for love, I would go by quantity rather than quality. Not a simple quantity, but a composite quantity of several recognizable components of love- attachment or passion, intimacy and commitment, for example. In any case, yes, a total love is very rare thing. However, the good news is that we all recognize even the incomplete love as love. There is no social or otherwise penalty for that. So, let's enjoy whatever there is. Hoina ta ? Nepe