You wrote:(promitional advertisement) "...when I was completing this book, my thoughts were something like this: love is a condition achieved after losing self-consciousness about love itself. And for this reason, it cannot be achieved through a conscious endeavor. ...If it ever happens, it happens according to its own time, space, and circumstances. When one falls in love, he/she would not have awareness of it.....My exploration of love in this work is to show the eternal possibility that love holds of transitioning from one form to the other or of existing in a duality. " I found a thoughtless(enlightened mind) on love this way. Go to this website . http://www.katinkahesselink.net/kr/love.html Are you talking about the same 'possibility of the the love' what J.Krishnamurti, Osho, Yogananda, Sivananda, Sufi, Swami Rama, Raman Maharshi, Buddha, Bibekananda...have talked about?