Ron, I hope you will feel better and for those of you who took an advantage of you. Let me clearly tell them. AX,nepallover,jerseynepal, dukullanthe, Does your wife like to wake up every morning and see 15-20 people sleeping in her living room. I know Ron was a kind hearted but you need to understand this guy is american and they have a privacy and MAY BE for for this reason his wifeand his kids (one living in Ca and another living in FL) left him are not in touch. I would say you guys took an extra advantage from him. Like you guys said he was a driver and he was our guide, can't you freaking buy a car for 500 dollars or ask with some one (another nepali) for a ride instead of asking a married man with family for a ride. Now its time for you guys to make an arrangement between you all (one living in CA and another living in NY, both fled NE after 1997 Raid by the INS) go back and spent at least a week with Ron instead of barking like a dog here on sajha saying what RON did and how much we need to help him. I can make a Freaking list who took an advantage of him and who didn't among those 300 graduates from Bellevue. Conclusion QUIT barking here in sajha and instead fly back to HUSKER land and spent atleast a week with him, that will be helpfull and he (RON) would be happy to see you folks after almost a decade if this thread is dedicated to Ron, post your comment at http://www.nnsociety.org/ but not here , its public forum and anyone has right to say anything in here Peace