slack, you're misunderstanding ke :D. i'm not saying that you're narcessist. nonono. i'm just talking about a person who actually meditated vipassena, perhaps half of his life, yet doesn't know the virtues of life like: love and kindness. it seemed like he only knew how to be rude. so i meant to say that because of the person, i don't see the significance of meditation. thanks for letting me know about the code..i'm relieved :P