iwhy would anyone go back to nepal to get married if he/she found a right person here in US itself. there could be various reasons one would go back to nepal for marriage. 1) parents desire for him/her to marry with the person of their choice. 2) not been able to find the right (definition may vary among individuals) person in US. several reasons could attribute to this. (a) too busy in work/study to find a partner. (b) living in a state where there are relatively less nepali in the first place. (c) too much americanized ("who the hell will marry a nepali" -concept) 3) prejudice about nepali living in US. that they are too liberal, won't understand family values, may not be virgin so on... 4)liked a girl but she did not give me a damn, or loved a man but he is too full of attitude to even consider me. right person does not necessarily have to be super good or a virgin or a sage in my view. on a personal note, i would be ready to marry anyone whom i can connect with regardless of her being virgin or non-virgin, good bad or ugly, someone who had number of bfs in the past or single ever since she came to US. it does NOT really matter as long as i see the match, as long as she is opinionated and bold plus if she possesses a little bit of sense of humor, that certainly does not hurt. :p. if i find her in US-- good!, if i have to go back to nepal--not at all that bad! it's not the place but the match with the person which matters :P :P LooTe PS Disclaimer: I am a virgin :P :P :P