Girls and Boys, Tell you what, go with the flow of the dating/mating/partnering game. As the song by the quiet Beatle goes " you ask me about my love (i don't know) ^2 stick around, it may show..." and so forth... There are certain inherent biological, financial, socialogical etc factors/rules which you can't change but only complain or comply to. Bottomline is: most girls will look for guys with mainly financial security and most guys will look for girls who look physically attractive. And that is dead true. Therefore, why not try to adapt yourself to some of these stringent rules and be happy ever after with or without a partner? Have a good night