There is a guy I know who is naturally as good looking as Mel Gibson still went home for arranged marriage. He had so many girls run after him all the time. I have seen people hooking up here too for the long haul and seems to be working out fine. To me meeting one here is fine or going for arranged one is okay too. It does not necessarily have to be the right way if it's the way that's working out for you. The burning quescion is "are you happy with what you achieved?"