well, it's good to be nosy at times, especially with the ones who are near and dear. i am tooooo nosy with my friends and relatives at times coz then only i would get to know about what they are cooking behind me hahaha :P. i don't poke into if it's too personal, but sometimes you've got to be nosy to actually understand if they are in trouble or if they need any help. i had been through many instances, when my friends tried to hide what's going on with them, and i had to really poke into to dig in the details. it's not bad to be nosy as long as you don't offend. :P after all, what's life without sweet/cute/friendly interventions hahahaha:P LooTe