hey folks lemme remind u one thing.... most of us(nepalese)didnt knew wat gay or lesbian as a whole a homosexual when we're back home. we just had a clue that it exist somewhere.think abt it when u re back home we used to have friends a whole circle of friends of mostly guys. we used to play, hangaround and most of the time we used to call us friends rt? did u have a feeling of gayism when u we're there huh. so if a guy is ur friend then ur gay huh. sound quite americanized. so u're first nepali then only ur american.....how long have u been here? no offend but dont try to forget our cultrure our family try to think ur from nepal and how is it there.