It is really hard to tell who is "Mr Right" and who is not for a simple reason ...that is, it takes many years to prove who actually and sincerely loved us..... I WISH we could find out (who actually and sincerely loved us) in a matter of 6 months or a year so that we could leave the 'Mr Wrong/Miss Wrong' and find someone else who could be 'Mr Right/Miss Right.' It is usually only after years we know that we had been with Mr Right/Miss Right or Mr Wrong/Miss Wrong......the tragedy is that by then we cannot go back in time reverse the whole situation even if we know that we had been with Mr Wrong/Miss Wrong after many years together. Choosing a mate is a big gamble...we dont always win however that does mean we always lose either. My only advice: Choose your mate based on your longterm goals and priorities....and you are most likely will not be on the losing side. Finding someone who actually loved you is like winning a big jackpot. Even winners dont always hit a big jackpot. The winners who hit a big jackpot are the very lucky ones. Someone said that in Las Vegas you can gamble at two places, at Casinos IF NOT at a church chapels (wedding).