I wasn't offended. I've always personally believed Nepali women to have wonderful assets- unlike some here in sajha. I don't know much (or even care) about the pain factor you spoke about cuz i think that's a deviation from the main topic. Hmm even i'd have to agree i find white girls slightly more attractive in a sexual sense but overall attraction not as much. Also attraction for the same race decreases in comparison to some other race. While a few decades ago asian women were not looked at much, nowadays asian women are hot (I'm talkin about the mongoloid race here) among white men. Some studies have shown black men preferring white women and the same with asian men. I personally have more asian and white girl-friends while my white guy friends agree that they would prefer my indian chick friends to their white couinterparts. It's been a psychological ride for me here. Even more shocking is the attitude of white women. We were having a sexual awareness week and I was in a discussion about sexual health when size came up. Surprisingly all of the white girls there found no attractive quality in a large manhood. I was blushing because these topics are bit off-handish for me but I realized it's guys who want BIGGER stuff from women and not the other way around. I think in a broader sense our thoughts on attractiveness do change. One generation may find one trait to be attractive while the next may find it repulsive. I personally don't find the white look to be any prettier than any other race (well maybe apart from africans- BUT THEY HAVE AMAZING BODIES MIND YOU :P) i don't judge guys but I prefer the skin tone of other races to the white ones. One white guy even told me the only reason he tanned was to have a skin tone like "brown guys". what a loser. My way of judging whether a white or any other girl is attractive to me or not is picturing that girl in a sari. If she would look good i one- she's definitely attractive. If she wouldn't- NOT. LOL. you folks may laugh ifyou want.