Listen kids, this looks really emotional on paper but in reality, this is not how it works...or else, this story being here in sajha for years now would have made some impact. Go and tell a gal/guy how much you like/love her and start bugging: the target boy/gal will start runnign away regardless of beauty, personality and character. haven't you heard the story why people fall for bad people? The more unavailable, busy and indifferent you become to the person who pursues you, the more charming you become. once in a while, also add spice of another prospective candidate even if u don't have one. so the lesson being: Never confess to a person you love, keep them guessing, and you will have them forever! The moment you surrender, you're doomed! If you don't believe me....just think of all the guys/gals you've had crush and tried to pursue. :)