whats up wit the 'good wife's guide'? Sounds like something Martha would have said in 1930s..too bad. For the girls of my generation, the list sounds so out of place, i can actually laugh about it. Too bad most of the women in Nepal are groomed to be the 'perfect wife' and do all the things in the list. Now that both the men and women are working, who is in charge of serving a hot/cold drink and taking off the shoes?