ImI: You may be right. But I am very skeptical about going with my current bf for a long run. He will expect me to love as much as he does which I won't be able to give him in return. He is a nice guy but I don't really feel a love vibe for him. That's the point. I don't know if in future it will emanate, but at the moment it looks pretty much null. It's not been long either, just 6 months. I don't know what is in store for both of us. Whereas with my ex, I have shared almost everything for more than a year and I am very much comfortable with him. I know almost everything about him, except for the sudden break up in communication which he had to do for a reason. Who would not go through bad/crunch time, especially in US? And he is back again, which means he still loves me. Why would he even need to contact me, if he did not love me?