Still, minor then you must seek suggestions. Did you ask anybody before falling in love? Did you try to contact your EX after entering US and did he? Better ask questions yourself and get the sincere anwer that will help to lead you better life that the outsider. Some of us are making jokes on you and having fun too. So, seek inside you and what you want in long term. Your choice is your decision, because we are talkig in face value only.