"why not send both mother and kids back home in nepal for a couple of years. i know it would be difficult for father a lot" OMG, i can already imagine what kind of father and a husband are you going to be !!! its not hard like hell to teach your kids nepali when you're pure nepali and you yourself grew up into nepali culture!! uffffff! loks like loots wants his kid to be a lekhak, whatever you call for a nepali writer/poet! its okay with me as long as my child speaks and understands nepali! then i wudnt care if hes comfortable with english or nepali!