aaaaaaaarrrggghhhh! this topic drives me mad. why did anyone had to start it?? and btw, I can't help clicking on it either :P Taauko ghumaiyo..grrr. In a way, I also wonder the same thing. I am 26 now and my parents are really worried that I will remain an old maid. I don't mind...but they said for my future its important. In a way I undertand what they mean. I am thinking of getting married, but the problem is..I don't like anyoneeee! oh yea, and the guy has to be a nepali re. before I came here where I am now, my parents gave me a warning saying 'kaley ra gorey hudaina'. Hmm...I don't mind nepali guys, but the most I met are so irresponsible. I like a guy who is responsible and serious about his future. The ones I've met are the ones who smoke gazza and party every weekend. I am not a party pooper. I love hanging out once in a while, but I can't do that every weekend. And gaazza is not my type of thing. Also, I grew up overseas, and I have hard time relating to guys who directly came from nepal. I find them so much more westernized than I am though I have been exposed to the western world more than they have. My parents have given me a warning saying if I don't marry in 2 years time, I will have to marry someone they choose. In a way I am scared, but I guess if arranged marriage works out for our parents..why not for us?