Is it just me or is there someone else who felt exactly the way I am feeling right now. I read the whole thread, word by word, line by line -- probably the first time in my life. Throught out my reading, I had 900 different ideas poppin' in my head. Some replies were awesome, some were hilarious and some were, well, same ol' shiz about ego, education, men, women, stupid speculations and moronic imaginations. Moronic because some people seem to know what is going to work and what is not going to work like back of their hand... something like in Calculus, where you use this formula to get certain answer... well life is not calculus and nobody knows what is going to work in the future. I've seen many guys who went to Nepal and got married with someone unknown and are doing perfectly fine. I have seen guys who dated for seven crazy years before they got married, only to find their lives stuck between the rock and the hard place. I mean, how do you know what is going to work? How do you know it won't work good with an egoist guy? How do you know it won't work if the wife makes more than a husband? How do they know it will work out perfectly with a man/woman who have known each other for a long time? I have gone through this in my personal life too -- seems like "they" know everything? How do people know so much? Why should we believe them blindly? Some people seem to sit beside the well and speculate how deep the water is, how dangerous it is going to be if you jumped in it.. Well, I guess you won't know until you've jumped in it. So, going back to where I began, is it just me or what? I read the whole thread and 900 ideas popped in my head and at the end I was damn lost. I am lost, thats why I am making it intentionally irritating by writing everything on same paragraph. Where am I?