hahahahahahahahaha............... " I think the career women should not waste too much of their time searching for husbands who are in the long run going to be just a big pain." i did not need to read the rest of the article. the first sentence itself does not make sense at all. what about us, eligible bachelors (:P), who have BIG CRUSH on women who are ambitious to shape up their career? :P conjugal life is a journey, my friend, a jouney in a 2-wheeler (:P)! both wheels should reciprocate and support each other. if one of the wheels wants to run in 100mph, the other should also speed up. if it cannot, the other has to slow down and vice versa. you don't want to get flat while travelling, do you? hehe... it's all about understanding each other, mutual trust and co-operation. if it's there, nothing is complicated, the journey is as smooth as ever. if not, even a trivial thing will come up as a hindrance. LooTe P.S. All those article writers that you have referenced are lazy bones who don't want to understand the passion in a struggling woman longing for her career build up. What's wrong in it. RESPECT!!!!