we should not misunderstand the real meaning of equality. It is the equality of 'respect'. what is respecting? It's not bowing your head everyday to your inlaws. It's not calling your spouse "hajur". But it's making an effort to understand the other sex's problem. So a woman should try to understand a man's problem and a man should try to understand a woman's problem. Often in nepal, a man doesn't understand a woman's problem. But it doesn't mean that all men are like that. There are men who do understand and know how much a woman can love. And there are women who know how much a man can love her. If one thinks that he or she cannot ever respect the other sex, then there might be problem with oneself. The environment in which the person grew up make a whole lot of difference.