A carrier woman and a man do not guarantee a successful relationship. It rather depends on the mutual understandings and compromises from both the parties. A low incoming woman could marry a highly paid man and still live happily together and vice versa. Regarding your adoption stories, it’s again a personal choice. As you have said American women come in the big picture regarding Chinese babies adoptions. It is probably because of the diverse culture and the high-income rate. Nepalese women are behind because we still are in the developing stage. Women have just started to come out of the cave and started exploring the world. So spare them and give them a little time. :) Why only China in the main frame? Take Africa or Nepal for example. I bet they have babies to be taken care of as well. Btw babies are babies, be it a boy or a girl. :) Happy Friday!!!