what a stupid thread...,what makes you feel that only carrieer oriented people should adopt children...your examples are stupid enough..from your example there should be no married women..don't compare between america and asia...and especially japan...it is fact that japan is so expensive so people don't want to get married...cost of baby only cost lots of money...so either women need to give up their work or just be house wive with little money...what a stupid example of that american actress..do you want to compare them with normal people like us...those people have plenty of money as well as plenty of time to think about adoption...if you have good amount of money than people will start thinking about adoption..and those actress all of them live in with their boyfriend ..why should we adopt those chinese baby..there are tons of baby in our country also ...... and hey there are tons of example of carrier oriented women getting married and have happy life...and why american guy don't prefer american girl??? that is also stupid reason..guy no matter where they are from which country they are from ..all the boy have same mentality...ohh virgin girl...generalizing all american girl of their character...i have found this from hanging out with lots of stupid american friend....