A married + carrier woman ofNepal will have far more problems than a woman who decides just to adopt. It is because a married women will have many household responsibilities as well, like she will have to do the cooking , cleaning,, look after the husband's parents, extended family and relatives and also doing the work in outside as well. that is far too much work load. And she will also be expected to be perfect in both which is way too hard.On top of that if the Husband and the Husband's family are not supportive then she will have more problems to handle. i know that there are some families who are not even that supportive. When i was a young student I used to know a relative of mine who had her daughter in law or Buhari going to work. Do you know what this women used to do ...she used to go from one house to another and used to tell them how her buhari leaves all the work for her to do ...which was actually completely false. So see you can just guess the amount of social pressure there is for the women. Where as if she just adopts the child she will have to take care of only the child only. Lots of women are doing it. Even women in South Asia like Raveena Tandon and Susmita Sen have adopted children. They also had compatibility issues. Could be because of men's Chauvinism. But adoption has given them another chance. Adoption gives chance to any women. You can have both family and career and you don't have to worry wat the husband wil think say if you had to work till 9pm in the office just because you wanted to work hard and wanted a promotion. You can control your own life What I meant to say is there is Don Corleone inside almost every man. i wrote it even in my previous post that American men are not marrying American women. They prefer to get wives from Eastern Asia and Russia. Just look at the rising number of dating agencies. American women have become very equal to men so these men they go to other countries. So why should women fight . And even if they fight what will happen in the end.....there will be name callings to the women onlyl ike ....loud mouthed, feminist, whiner, high maintainence women etc etc. So best if women find alternatives. Now that even sociologists and health experts have proven that a women can raise a child by herself, why should not women think of doing that. Also Please visit this website http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/scotland/3540763.stm From this it is also clear that government of some countries have no restrictions with single women adopting child then what is the problem!!in fact tehy are encouraging single women to adopt. So what I am trying to say is that ...men will not change ...although they might say women should have rights etc.....they will still prefer the traditional wife....I know it is sad. Have you ever noticed why Japan's birth rate is so low....its about 1.29. Japan has become developed and women are doing very well but they do not want to get married. Reason being Japanese men are very traditional. They expect women to do all the house work. Not just in japan but in Korea as well. Researchers are saying that japanese and Russians will be the first people to be extinct and in the world and they blame it on the women. But is it reallly the women to be blamed.???? Another thing I do not like in Asian countries is the prefernce for sons over daughters. I have generally seen that sasus always expect their daughter in laws to give them Natis over Natinis ...And husbands who prefer sons over daughters ...why? So these all things I guess do not incourage women to get married that much. i think women who leave in America at least they have another chance ..that is adoption. Had they been in Nepal would they would be able to this?? Western countries are more open towards single parent adoption Think about how many poor children there are in this world. Does anyone have any idea how many women get trafficked from Nepal because they are just too poor and have no options. I have read that some girls are as young as 13-14. And lets not forget the countless girls and boys who have to work by cleaning peoples house, utensils and sustain their lives. There are so many children who need a proper house and education.The career women should definately look for husbands ...but if they find that there are men who are not able to provide them with the respect that they deserve, there are alternatives as well.