Don You asked a question and I have my personal answer for you 4)Ask the divorced career women about the reason behind their break ups. a. Being educated, they(the couple) found out that they were not well suited together. b. The man was having an affair c. The woman was having an affair d. The man's or woman's family butted into their affairs e. The woman could not reproduce so typical of Nepalese folks, they had to divorce so the man could reproduce (in denial that the man could be bhajo) f. The woman worked hard at work and was expected to make a warm home cooked meal for her husband every night. She got tired of it and wanted a divorce. g. The man (presuming he is Nepali) expected a woman to do everything and when that was not going to be, considered the woman too career oriented and wanted out. I could go on but time is of the essence. I would like you to pick one and keep that low opinion to yourself but if you are trying to understand more and learn more, then I think a through g could be possible. Because why did your grandfather hve more than one wife when there was a pretty good one sitting at home having babies and cleaning the house and making food? Because he was career oriented? hehe some food for thought. bujney lai sirikhanda nabujney lai ummmmmmm tei!