dude succumb re. pressure of heat from your arguments. you are not here to argue, please. you are here to show how brilliant you are. and don't this is a goddamn anonymous website!! i dont' know u and u don't know me. so what is the big deal? but then agian, u r here to please urself, so whatever makes yu happy. i will look into the sites now. aba ta i will reallyyy stop commenting. good night! imi, i have not researched into this, and i hate to make generalizations about anything. and i dont' want to argue either. if you think women should sacrifice, go ahead and ask your sacrifice your wife and your daughter to give up thier dreams and ambitions. ask them to stay home. see if they are willing to do taht...if that is not realistic, then why do you expect everyone else to make the sacrifice? i dont' know and i dont' have the answers to your qeustions because i still belive every case is unique and as for shifting gender roles, yes that will change soceitiy inevitable. for better or worse, we have yet to see. good night!