she cries over the phone with me. she says she can not decide what to do. according to her, if she come back to me people might think she hung out with this new guy for few months and again went back to same guy and if she goes to the new guy people will say she just used me and left me. she cries a lot these days. i can not see her tears and that melts me easily. whatever all of you have said, i agree with you but what i realized is it is definitely easy to say but difficult to do. alright guys, thank you all for your input and suggestions. though it is very hard for me to listen to you all at this point, i have no better option than to try to forget her. Its already been few months and it is going no where. I need to focus on my career now. no more love and lover, i guess time will tell me what wil happen next.