" My advice to women, work but work in low profile and give more time to the family and society where most of them are good at." Don these were your words. I hve another equation that you, who have worked in Europe, may understand even better. Man works hard at home and work + woman works had at home and work = success at marriage + raising family. oops I forgot about the "which part of Europe" did you actually work in question but never mind, since you want to talk about theory and practice. What I suggest is theory and I know there are very few men who can practice that. I have one question, what is it you are trying to say? I think you sound pretty confused.