He's asking for advice, i bet he is thinking fu*k that bit*h and i have to move on with my life. Easier said than done. Number, you will feel suffocated, depressed, hurt, and what not for few weeks, months, depending on how long your relationship was. i bet it was long, since you guys talked about marriage and such. So the pain is going to follow you for a while. Few steps you can take to heal quickly or easily... Keep busy. Hang out with your friends more. Go out more. More you stay alone, more you have time to think why the girl left you. And more depressed you get. With friends, hang out, go to bars and clubs. Most of us here have gone through almost the same situation. So don't feel that you are the only one in this world. And look what ochinmutua said.."On a good note, you will get to see and play with atleast one more Pwu-Tang in life." Eminem said "But i know one thing though, bi*ches they come they go, saturday thru sunday monday, monday thru sunday..." :P there are many girls out there. maybe you're not ready for one yet...but take time, dont find a chick that you might use her to bounce back to real world from your painful one. you will be fine!