It's my plan to do both... I'm not ready give up the plan to have the fun of experimenting with the North American style of relationships and ultimately the marriage....however I do not plan to stay married in western version of marriage and relationship forever...Max 5 years. After that I'll go for Nepali marriage which has forever familiar with us for its endurance. In summary..."get the best of both worlds". I cannot be more frank and honest than this no matter how other people see it.