kiwi, as u said I do have wasted a lot of my time, and energy after this. I've been taking off from my on-campus job just to drive almost half an hour n talk to them... But they wont listen. The guy over there shouts to us with so harsh tone, not even my parents have done that to me. Wont u feel like crying out if u were in my shoes?? I miss home.... It makes me feel so good to see that there are so many ppl here in sajha who really do care besides just loggin in to have some fun.. One more question, after all that happened I cant trust them. Since they have my SSN, Is there any way that i can protect it from being misused?? I m goin to see the Nepalese association ppl just to see if they can do something? thank u all I will keep on checking ur advices. Forgive me if I m not able to respond tonight. I hope to be back tomorrow with a lot more pessimistic thought...