I don't think she's saying she wants to elope with a "second man"... In the song, she mentions how she would love to put "sindoor" and wear "pote" like other women... Which means she's not married... And even if she is asking for another husband, big deal???? She can ask for all that she wants as long as that wish of hers promises happiness and contentment... It's her(a woman's) day afterall!!!!! C'mon guys it's just a fun song... If you can complain about your husband and how badly his family treats you in a teej ko song, why cannot you sing about how much you wanna get married??? I don't see no reason why one would be offended by such a harmless song... Kudos to Komal Oli for daring to sing a song like this....