oops the last comment was for ImI, captain haddock hahaha....that "food" went wasted hehe i realised it too...may be i should barge myself on putting too much on the table....we are not that voracious it seems hehe..:P well, i appreciate your comment... and your arguments sound understandable. in fact my views resonate with yours!... i am just trying to look at the bigger picture without rambling and digressing (which i may potentially do...hehe..so check me on that). i mean there is no restriction to human emotions..it's all about respecting others..that's why i feel gay marriage should be legalised. but should it be marginalised? that's my question. i mean do we really want to fight for "weird" (of all kinds..even with animals) marriages... let me be more blunt...i know this may invite me trouble or may offend many..but i am just taking my chances as this is our sajha. what if tomorrow say handful of people raise their voice for legalising "sibling marriage" . i mean what if a brother wants to marry his sister or vice versa. it's NOT impossible, is it? i mean let's see things on "social" vs "legal" perspective. can we justify marriages that have all kinds of "weirdness" (at the moment. i am sorry for this word again). LooTe