DWI, One of the most heart rending stories i have read in recent times, it was sum_off first and then it is you. The common factor I find in both these posts is, realizing the ultimate truth which was clouded by guilt and embarrassment initially. Your dad indeed needs salutation, but you need too my friend, to have acknowledged his pride and your remorse. As far as the dakshina goes, I wish I could still get a few.