awatar, you have a different line for the definition of celibacy. "once you experience orgasm, you are not celibate", well that may be correct but i am not looking at the scientific definition. orgasm can well be achieved from "night fall" and other modes (natural) even when you abstain from sex. i am looking at psychological arena for celibacy. what makes a person feel that they should get married or get hooked for that matter. in general i am thinking of "is there a thin line of difference between sex and marriage or sex and human emotion?." i know sex is a part of human emotion. what if we don't cry when someone close to us dies? similarly what if we abstain from sex, from marriage? i don't want the social explanation, i am into psychology hehe. fucchu, thanks for bringing this up. i know people here take any kind of talk on sex as cheezy conversation. they fail to grasp the aesthetic value. you seem to have understood the thread better than anyone. :) Shwetaa, it's not about me or you. it's about the human nature. can someone really abstain from marriage or physical desires. can you remain married or stay with your bf/whoever yet absaining from sex (just an assumption)? don't teach me nirvana and other deep philosphies hehe.. ss74k, pour your feelings here. this is what sajha is about haina ra? sajhfuser, i nearly had a heartattack when imi told me that you have been abducted by prachanda and you've been riding with him in a helicopter in rolpa :P. glad to see you back...ani aru ke chha heroine? :P LooTe