MIke...you dun have to worry abt that.coz first of all..I dun have any nepali frens here. Nah...I dun care if its neapli/or any girls...they dun deserve to go via this situation. & yeah... I have also heard that a nepali guy vanished from his home the day he got the greencard. I agree that this is completely different than my fren's situation. But the nepali guy also showed no descency of telling anything to his wife. He chose to run on the day he got what he wanted. GOsh...he stayed with her for 4 years and couldnt stay one more day. Pathetic...... So its not only muslims...but depends on the mentality...NOt that I have Muslim bf...ehehhe Though I m not hard core religious person...I m hindu...& dun beleive in changing the religion..that doesnt make any difference to me. Aneesha