Showing off is atendency of us all. Indians show off of their strength and size. Who cares . I have also been asked the same thing by Indians. I simply told them f%*k u b&5 c&*d on their face. And the conversation is changed to a different topic. It is us who are making a big deal. Ban ko bagh lehaina man ko bagh le khancha. Keep ur spirits high, and try to be strong.