"Tshering had left! Strangely I didn't feel bad anymore. Perhaps, I had expected this to happen after all. Tshering had come and gone out of my life like a hurricane. She left without a trace." That, in my opinion, is the best way for people to break up. Kumar is lucky he got a clean break; there are others who are not so lucky and often get dragged through a lengtly melt-down and a messy break-up. They say it's a woman's world in America and a man's in Nepal. We've got to balance those two worlds otherwise Kumar's story could very well be each of ours.