Aneesha, My suspicions are true after all. lol i didnt even mention them and you saw straight through what i wrote. I'm glad you could. Rigidity is not necessarily the most attractive of qualities, but i do understand the need for it at times. Myself, being an EXTREMELY laid back person, have problems being rigid. Perhaps you have some tips. :p So how long you been a nurse? I like people in the medical profession. :) And ya you never bothered replying to other entries that i addressed towards you. Well there might have been just one more. Possibly with the Discrimination in Nepal topic. Pearl, I really hope you find some one for yourself. But i do have a piece of advice to offer. Everyone else, please do feel free to disagree with me. Here it is. I do not believe, asking for suitors in Sajha is a good way of looking for people to marry. Sure that increases your chances of meeting someone special, but i dont know by how much. I guess its still better than nothing. Have you tried using your networks? Family? Friends? I know its tuff to find the right person, but like you yourself admitted, time is of the essence. Whats your back up plan anyway? is there one? Please dont marry the first guy you meet. :p You'll find your match soon. And although i do not believe in god. I'll actually make a prayer for you. I only make prayers for very few people and only on rare occasions so consider yourself fortunate. :) I hope you well