Okay I take back my first sentence...maybe I hail from different time period and had experiences with people other than sms and stx too...Seems like you just read my first sentence and forgot to read through the following ones...what I means is, it's just the same same same same all the time....and you said you see lots of xaverians participate in sebsonline?? where is your(mary's) identity? And why would I want open a thread there when I don't feel the eagerness in anyone else...esp girls and that's sad. Well that's my criticism and critics don't usually solve the problem...they just point out ;)....if you feel it's not even a problem then just ignore it.