yes i am a male,but i dont think the difference in our perception has anything whatsoever to do with gender. i believe that when things dont go right, for whatever reason, whose ever fault it is, ppl should try to work it out. like i said, sometimes we all do things and we dont realize that our signifacnt other might be hurt, or woudlnt like it, sometimes we do things unintentionally. you cant say ..oh i love this guy/girl sooo much, and when things are bad,,u just dump him, if you love someone, try to work things out, talk..talk..talk....its always not about how much other loves you, sometimes you have to know yourself, how much you love him/her, and yes, when one day you wake up, and look at the mirror and just know that you've loved the person with all your heart, with everything there is to make a person feel complete, and you've tried and done your best, then yes you move on, but pleaseeeeeeeee dont take a haste decision, your lost love might be your true one. all it takes is a lil effort to make something beautifull into something elegant, and every couple should that to each other. its one thing to fall in love...thats the easy part, to make them feel loved is is a diff story, and to make your love work out in long term...well that needs, effort, persistence, understanding, compromsing, being their for each other and moral.