Alas!! some one came to rescue SAjahuser .hehehhehe SS74k.. there is no love and there is no true love.. materalistic or whatever.Don't think i am pessimist.Everything is pure business transaction.well , i am looking from different angle than you .I should say i am digging to the real defination of love and which i don't see.Everything is like contract. that is why marriage is also known as social contract.I don't want everybody to think , everytime as every thing is business dealing with people but this they should think in a cool brain.If you are scared to do buisness with people thinking you will lose then you do.. so go into the life ..do what you can.. happiness is a relative term anyways.:)