yo bro!!! whaddup with ya??? why are you telling all this here?? trying to be all matured and well cultured with your big words??. well lemme tell you one thing!..smoking and drinking isnt the part of being so americans or wearing the short skirts makes them look like one. you said "i have been there and done it" isnt that lil double standerd?? afule paile sabai kam garne, ra aru kids harule same thing experiance garna napaune hyaaa tyo chai bhayena la!!!..., i think you should go back to nepal and see the same thing happening there. its just that in us or in europe these girls and guys can do the those things freely without having an eyebrow raised . ....so bro its time for you to grow up and open ur eyes!! .... like once a wiseman "me" said...Live, let live, enjoy, have fun and never hurt anyone!!!!!!!!