so are you suggesting that one shouldwork like a slave , risk their life and torture themselves and thier family so they could " blend in " with the white people? screw that, if blending in was so imp , american companies wouldnot be booking flights to indian and bringing indians in h1bs. they would be head hunting in estes park and ocean city for propestive employee. i have seen tons of college grads not finding jobs in the usa... who are totally blended in , while masala stinking indians grabing the jobs that should've been occupied by blended degree holders...