Gundda There is difference between force:One in borthel is forced physially and one outside is forced due to economic hardship or societ or whatever ..ok the point is Since the person in brothel can't help it is makes sense to say they deserve sympathy but for outside and respecting money more than dignity ,then i cannot agree 100% with you there. Ok bathroom coffee: it might be conquest for him not for somebody else .It is his life .this is his thread and this public forum .He can say do what ever he likes.He is not asking you to pat his back or anything. I am realizing that this is offending many people and i think though it is public forum ,one should not offend it like this.So, i think MM knows better!