Anon, Truly said, the environment which were are raised shapes us up its way, but then there is a time you realized you have to make a choice. Acute cursing if sounds permissible at recent times might give a way to sex in public and even battery and murder. Further, I made a point that I find cursing excusable under conditions which takes us off guard. I was only against offhand swearing. Seriousguy, I am more than glad that this thread is not decimated like the others I had posted before, and I am equally delighted that it evoked some debates from analytical sajhaites like you. First, I never mentioned anything about patriarchy. If you rummage through the story again, you find the see-saw of misdemeanor tilted towards gentlemen. Do the math, it is reena against luda and ashok. I find cavalier swearing equally offensive regarless of sexes. As far as hip hop is concerned, police brutality should not be sterotyped for eons. There are mistakes made, there were racial prejudices, but not in the fashion hip hop artists claim it today. Eminem, Dre, Snoop Dogg have a record of consuming narcotics, Biggie and Tupac were killed in rivalry. Why does this not happen to Rod Stewart or Phil Collins? There might be exceptions in axl rose, curt cobain et al but the majority of the rock and roll and blues artist do not display hatred and crime in their songs. Just a final thought, I have nothing to do with what Eminem had against his wife, it is time he did not wash his dirty linen in public and resolved it inside closed doors. Hatred begets hatred and induces to generations. Cerine, That was the whole point, I am not discriminating sexes here. Meera, Thanks for the accord, let's go buy some ear plugs. Hunk, The reason I mentioned you in the other thread is because you deserved it. And yes, I also love the beautiful girls swea, especially when their tire turns flat or they their stilletto give off in Sunset boulevard. I am just not a fan of casual cursing.