I do not understand why people use the word 'gay' as if its some kind of disease. This word is often used with a negative connotation. A supposedly "happily" married Nepali woman with a 10 year old kid apparently have no feelings for her man, in fact for any man. She can't help how she feels and yet she has to be with this man for the rest of her life because no one will understand or choose not to understand her what so ever, if she ever decided to come out of her closet. Is this what Bush refers to as "strengthing families," living a lie? I believe that same sex marriage does not mean to "undermine families." I think the whole idea of marriage is union, not necessarily only among the opposite sex. A lot of people fear that by allowing same sex marriage, one goes against the natural law. Who are we to talk about the natural law? Natural law, to wipe my arsh with. If you talk about the law, this could very well be nature's way to control population. I do not understand why are people having a hard time understanding that this is 'natural.' Besides, just because gay marriage is allowed, doesn't mean everybody around will go gay.