true, most desis know a little about gratitude, as in bahiri dikhawa. but what makes deja blue think that all whities are all that greatful. stereotyping ko pani hadd huncha bhai. not all whities are red-necks, and not all desis are makkhichoos. anyway. I think its not only the hard $$$$$'s that make the "poor-colored ppl" feel inferiorated, its this inferiority complex that is ingrained within us. kids, as small as a five year old in Nepal will not have a hard tyam putting khaires topmost in the racial hierarchy. khaires are second to god back home. or not, they share the same position. "athiti devo bhava"